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14 sex tips: A lady’s guide to sexual satisfaction

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This post is dedicated to all the ladies out there who are in one relationship or the other and hoping to spice up their sex life. Nigerian women need to take the reigns of sexual satisfaction into their own hands, yes, be selfish! This post isn’t exactly for you to drive men crazy, it’s for you to derive pleasure from the fact that you can get him so worked up, he has no option but to give it to you just how you like it. Here are 14 ideas to make sure you never have a shitty sex life ever again. The ball is in your court now. Let’s make it rain.. Girl power!

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LET THE GUY TAKE CONTROL; A lot of times women feel they need to prove their sex skills in bed. Of course it is hot to see a guy get off by what you are physically doing to them, but they aren’t the only ones who deserve to be pleasured. Ladies, sometimes you need to let a guy prove his sex skills to you too. A major unexpected move in bed men love is to tell them to show you what he’s got. Put yourself first and make him do the work. He’ll be so turned on by the challenge, and can’t wait to get you to the finish.

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MAKE FOREPLAY LAST; Foreplay is definitely an expected move in bed but it’s what you do with it that makes it one of the hottest moves in bed men love. Foreplay doesn’t just start in the bedroom. It starts with that initial meeting, the texting, the conversation on the date. Everything is a build up to the main event. When it comes to oral sex touch every part of his body except his penis. The tension and teasing you create will make him crazy! Spend as much time licking, kissing, and caressing his inner thigh, his stomach, his neck, etc. until he can’t take it anymore. The amount of time you have taken leading up to the moment you take him in you will make it the best unexpected surprise.

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LET YOUR FINGERS ROAM; This move is something that is based on your comfort level. We think men have the magic hands, but ladies we have some power in our fingers ourselves. There are several lusty spots on a man that when touched and teased take his pleasure to a new degree. A guy’s prostate is his G-Spot. Rest two fingers between the testicles and anus and lightly put pressure. This is a move in bed men love that will make him explode, literally!

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DIRTY TALK; I have come to find the weirder you feel about talking dirty in bed, the better it is. It’s one of those things that just seems a bit off, but a guy loves it. Tell him what you like, compliment him, and shout the dirtiest thoughts you can think of. Don’t be afraid to just let yourself go, because when it comes to dirty talk you can’t hold yourself back. It’s a chance to release your inner sex goddess, and when a guy sees that he is instantly turned on.

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BRINGING YOUR OWN TOYS; If you’re a girl who’s into blindfolds, handcuffs, whips, chains, etc. then show up with all of it. A guy is never sure of his limits when it comes to being intimate with a girl. Don’t think because you are a bit frisky that you are going to scare the guy off, instead expect the total opposite of giving him a move in bed men love. They are always up for trying new things, and the confidence you radiate for knowing what you like will make him go crazy!

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TOUCH YOURSELF; This is a move in bed men love in and out of the bedroom. It’s really good to get know yourself and your body. Men are extremely turned on by the fact that you are able to pleasure yourself all on your own. A lot of guys relate you touching yourself to porn, because that is what has turned them on so many times in their life. You just made a guys digital fantasy become a reality.

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DON’T ALWAYS OVER-DO IT; Sometimes, you just gotta let it be simple. Catch him by the collar after work and drag him to the bedroom for a good old shagging. You don’t always have to over-complicate it, especially if you catch him off-guard. This can be super unexpected for him and it’s a win-win situation for you!

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THE LOCATION MATTERS; To be honest girls, the location alone can be something that a lot of men fall for. Don’t always do it in the bedroom, switch it up a little bit. This can be an unexpected move and move he’ll love! Have you ever seen a porn that is done solely in the bedroom? Probably not! So why should your sex life be solely in the bedroom?

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WATCH PORN; You are probably wondering why this is on there huh? A lot of guys watch porn, a lot of guys like porn and while you do not always have to act like a porn star, you should at least know what your man is watching, so maybe you can pull some of the moves on him! So raid his porn stash or even ask him to watch porn with you, that can be erotic all together!

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TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT; While letting a guy take control, as previously stated, will definitely get him going this is something else that might work. Sometimes guys like you taking control and knowing what you want. To do this you have to be confident! Don’t be timid and ask for what you want, demand it. This will definitely guy your guys engines roaring, plus you’ll get what you want.

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STRIP TEASE; Don’t just do the normal get into bed, kiss, undress, blah blah blah – try something new. Sit your boyfriend down and do a little strip tease. This will get him all hot and bothered and he’ll feel the anticipation growing inside of him. To do this right you can’t let him touch you and don’t let on to what you’re going to do before you do it. It’s more fun if it’s a surprise!

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MAKE THE FIRST MOVE; It’s probably normal for your guy to ask for or initiate something in bed. Why not shake things up? Every so often why don’t you make the first move? He’ll love the unexpectedness of this, especially if you’ve never done it before. Lean over and kiss him a little harder than usual, let your hang linger on his thigh, or do anything so he knows where you’re going with your hints.

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SURPRISE HIM;When he comes home from a long day at work, surprise him by waiting in bed for him. Better yet, lead him to the bed with a trail of your clothes and underwear! He’ll likely be very surprised as well excited to find out what’s waiting for him. Just make sure that you don’t fall asleep in bed waiting for him, talk about a mood killer!

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GET A LITTLE ROUGH;A lot of guys like when things get a little rough in bed, but they don’t want to ask for it. Men likely feel like women are too shy, when really they’re the shy ones for not asking! Start out slow with a scratch here and there and see how he reacts. If he likes this then why not take things a little further? He’ll most likely love it!

A lot of women want to be able to up their sex life with their partner, feel more confident in being a single woman, or just get some known facts out of a guy’s mind. It’s time to step out of your comfort zones and put the power in your hands.

How many of you would try this, and which would you try?

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