“How happy am I?” Now that’s one question we girls need to ask ourselves from time to time; forget being a “strong woman, blah , blah, blah”, truth be told as long as you’ve got blood flowing in those veins, Nicki Minaj’s ” See Right Through You” song can get you tripping for some tall dark chocolate hunk to whisk you away to the land of happily ever afters… hold on a second, scratch that! It’s all about falling madly and crazy, for you, yes you! Want to know the secret to inner bliss? Here are 5 tricks every happy girl knows:
Love your body – So what, you don’t have Nicki Minaj’s perfect curves to flaunt? You’re a unique being who’s got other things working for you. Love you, imperfections an all. Embrace yourself and others will too.
Be your own cheerleader – One secret, become your own best friend, root for you and learn to be happy with yourself- with or without a relationship. Don’t wait for anyone to make you feel fabulous or less. #YouCanDoBadAllByYourself.
Forgive you / stop clinging to the past- Yes you’ve made terrible terrible mistakes which makes you almost want to slap yourself! Stop! You can’t go back and redo the past so learn from your mistake and move forward with no resentment. At least, you realised your mistake and that’s great!
Pamper thyself – “Your work is you passion and your passion you work”… So you love to work, great, but you need to take a break sometimes and just have fun! No jokes, it’s necessary for a healthier and more productive you! You could read your favourite book, watch a bad ass movie, listen to your favorite music or even shop the world! Do these sometimes and you will be the happiest girl on the planet. lol…okay, that’s an exaggeration, but at least you get the message right? lol
Personal/ physical development – Spending quality time with positive like minds is a great way to becoming your bestest self. Friends influence and shapen our person, so instead of hanging around girls who only dream of dumping all their responsibility on any guy who puts a ring on it, why not spend time with people who push you to achieve your goals- Being Miss independent is a great confidence booster! That’s not all, embark on operation keeping fit and you’ll be walking those streets like your very own catwalk in confidence!