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How To Talk Dirty In Bed 


Ilori Titilayo

For a man, nothing is sexier than a woman who is loud in bed and participates in a little sexy talk.

Below are things your man is dying to hear off your mouth about them.

Men want to know that you’re not visualizing someone else when you’re with them or just taking it in.

Although, it may seem basic, saying or screaming out his name in bed is a good way to ease into dirty talk.

Punctuate it with a few “oohs” and moans and it will be more than enough to get him going.

The Action

If you’re being a tad quiet, many men will take the initiative and let you know what they’d like to hear by peppering you with questions, such as What am I doing to you? And how does that feel?

However, don’t feel obligated to use cuss words if its not your style. Instead, take a cue from romance novels and utilize under used verbs like “pulse”, ” swell” and “throb”

Your Fantasies

Nothing counts when its said in between the sheets, so if you’re feeling confident, why not use the opportunity and tell him all of your craziest fantasies and dreams?

If the thought leaves your tongue- tied, try practising in front of a mirror especially the particularly naughty parts until you are able to say them without feeling embarrassed or laughing.

Stock Dirty Phrases

Sometimes, just having sex is intimate enough, and the idea of pouring out all of your deepest desires, especially in a new relationship, is too much.

However, you don’t want to be mute. For those times, any of the following sexy phases will work like;

“Oh, yeah, right there”.

“That feels amazing”

“Don’t stop, harder”

“I want you so bad”

“Give it to me”

“You animal”

Get creative

Men can be just as insecure as women; so sometimes a little vocal encouragement is all that is needed to let them know that you are enjoying what they’re doing.

Sometimes, a few soft purrs can be just as effective as a well rehearsed speech, so don’t be afraid to get creative.

Whatever you do to hail them along will make your bedroom romp all the more exciting.

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