Any relationship is bound to have its highs and lows. Sometimes the lows are so low that you end up in a fight and the agony of sulking and being away from your partner is worse than going to hell .
Though it may seem odd at first, saying sorry to a loved one has its own benefits as you become more understanding and tolerant of each other.
You can tackle those pretty issues that keep cropping up between the two of you without making a big fuss about it.
Value your partner. Learn to respect his/her feelings and don’t do things to hurt him/her deliberately.
Read on to know more about patching up after a fight.
Why apologise? Most importantly, knowing how to genuinely apologize in a meaningful way helps to build and maintain healthy relationships. Saying sorry deepens a relationship in several ways.
Its builds trust, it prevents a potential deterioration of relationship problems, it can kick start a renewal in your relationship and it removes awkwardness between the parties.
What is the potential outcome of saying sorry?
Well there may of course be negative consequences to your admission of guilt, you may end up being punished, having to deal with the fall out in your relationship, and having to pay either emotionally, mentally, physically or financially.
However, further positives are better relationships with your colleagues, friend or family or with your partner unless you are admitting to infidelity.
A clear conscience, which potentially reduces anxiety, improves sleep and restores your self respect. It also provides spare capacity to deal with other dramas, project ,people or opportunities.
Why you need to say sorry.
You may want to offer an apology for any of the following;
There was a misunderstanding because you were ignorant of fact.
You made assumptions and you omitted to check them out.
You deliberately hurt your partner or someone else to get your own back and so on
How to say sorry,you may be feeling pretty sheepish right now, assuming that you are here for genuine reasons. If not a gentle word of wearing disingenuousness will leak out in your general demeanor, including your voice,choice of words and body language.
How to say sorry to her
You have had your big first fight with her and it is all a big mess. Now, you are wondering as to how to say sorry to her. You love her a lot and wouldn’t want to lose her for a lame reason like a fight.
Saying sorry to someone never killed anyone, yet somehow, it is never too easy to utter the word “Sorry”. Swallow your ego and bury your pride in the backyard.
Remember, sorry is a miraculous word that has the power to heal past grievances and bury the unpleasant memories that stirred the fight.
How to say sorry to him
Every relationship has its ups and downs. It is completely up to you, how you want to handle the situation.
Blaming each others fault is simple and it takes only a fraction of a second to do so but what matters is solving the situation in a sensible and rational manner.