When dating a younger man, experienced young women who have dated quite a few older men, know that there are some things that a young man just won’t do for her that an older man would be willing to do.
With years of learning, living, and growing up with women, a mature gentleman knows how to charm women in ways that an immature, inexperienced young man can’t. A man, who wants to find a good woman and keep her, could learn a thing or two from older men.
Older men use what they know to connect with a special, young woman by doing some things to keep her interested and ready to commit.
Act respectful and mature: It goes without saying, you treat people the way you would want to be treated. Older men know that a smile and a polite remark go a long way with some women.
He also knows that knowledge is power and that there is no room for irresponsibility, foolish behavior, and laziness in his world.
Share knowledge: Older men are well-aware that a young woman is intelligent, but still has some areas in her life that still need to grow. Therefore, he will provide the kind of wisdom that will motivate her to make wiser decisions and grow from her life experiences.
Listen to her stories and ask questions: She shares information about her day, her family, friends, likes, dislikes, interests, and more. Rather than letting this information go in one ear and out the other, older men uses what he has learned about his young lady friend to build and create the kind of partnership that will keep her interested in him and not that other guy.
Take her places outside his bedroom: Older men could keep a young woman in his room and play with her all day, but he knows that she will eventually get bored, so he knows at some point he has to offer her more than just sex.
So he makes plans for the two to go shopping, vacation, try new things, attend events, and meet with family and friends once he becomes serious with her.
Provide for her financial needs: Unlike the younger man who is trying to make ends meet paycheck to paycheck, an elderly man will share his wealth without losing his cool or feeling like he can’t afford to maintain a relationship with his young date.
What a relief to a young woman who may have had a history of walking on eggshells with a young man who acted selfishly, rude and even frugal when it came to his gift-giving.
Be patient: Older men are simply not in a rush to get sexual needs met because they know the importance of getting to know someone. They also aren’t interested in making a young woman do things that she doesn’t want to do.
Although there are some controlling men out in the world, but there are also some patient, loving type.
Meet with family and friends: There are few older men that encourage family relationships and are very curious about the people their young dates are connected to.
They are looking at who might be a negative influence and who his young date might favor. Some younger and controlling older men prefer to keep their mates all to themselves leaving little room for their young dates to spend time with loved ones
Avoid unnecessary disputes that show insecurity and jealousy: Older men typically don’t bother with participating in meaningless disputes; rather, he prefers to reach a quick compromise without all the yelling and other things that go along with an immature woman.
When a young woman is upset about something, older men will try to figure out a way to make her feel at peace, while a young, immature man easily blows up in the hopes that he can break his mate down while continuing to display behavior that fuels his partner’s insecurities and jealous emotions. Most older men prefer peace over war.
Communicate his likes and dislikes: Older men who don’t see young men as threats to their relationships have no problem expressing their feelings. Older men will tell his young partner what he likes, dislikes, and what he has been thinking about concerning her particularly if he feels like he wants her to be very much a part of his life.
Take a genuine interest in her future: There are those older men who really are concerned about their young mates and will do what it takes to encourage her to be all that she can be. But a jealous younger partner can be easily intimidated by a young, educated woman who is getting somewhere in life.
If you are dating a young man and an older one, pay close attention to who is doing more for you emotionally and physically and stick with him. Some older men can make it bad for others, so remember one bad apple doesn’t make the whole basket of apples spoiled.